You know how frustrating it is when things don’t move at the speed you expect them to? Especially when your dealing with other people. That’s the problem with pushing. When we push we are always met with resistance, every single time. You would think after a while we would be smart enough to recognize the trend, but some how our ego just tells us to keep trying until we get the result “we” want. In the end we find that usually our pushing didn’t solve the problem, it only caused us to expel a ton of energy that could have been used to in a much more productive way. So you can write the letter, stick a stamp on it, and shove it into the mail box with great force, but it doesn’t mean that darn postal driver will get it delivered any faster!